The other day, someone asked me how I am coping with having been divorced. I told him that actually it is a simple situation. The Zohar teaches that our bodies are not random. They are tailor made for our souls, our real selves.
This means that a unique set of parents is needed to provide the genetic material necessary to give each soul that precious opportunity to enter the earth realm.
Based on this, it makes sense to me that I was married to my former wife to help the souls of our children embody.
God Willing, now it's time to seek my soul mate.