Thursday, April 2, 2020
Bridging Present and Future
Sunday, March 22, 2020
The Elusive Playmate
As a child, I grew up in the Borough Park section of Brooklyn, NY. It was during the 1970's and humans were not the only residents on my block. The spaces between the homes were occupied by cute, furry creatures whose baby-like cooing just melted my ears. Cats! Oh and how I just wanted to make a friend and playmate with at least one of them.
I begged my Mom for permission to scoop one up to bring home. But my Mom sharply retorted, "I'm raising children, not pets."
Her response got me wondering, "But I do not yet have children. So, don't I need a pet?" Of course, I completely misunderstood her. She simply meant that she's running a human-only household.
Accordingly, I resigned myself that a feline playmate would have to be an outdoor one. So, in my childish way I tried all sorts of overtures to attract one. I offered to pet and cuddle to the end of time. I chased them with assurances that I only meant friendship and would not hurt them. No matter how I pleaded and negotiated, I got only one response. They dashed away with a speed that my self described "athletic legs" could not match.
I felt so rejected! None of them wanted me as a playmate.
Then one day, something which felt so special happened. I met a cat who did not run away. I picked her up and petted her. I spoke to her and she meowed back. It felt like the bond I so yearned for was forming. I was so "in love". Yes, here was an ambassador from the world of cats who felt for my rejection and compassionately came forward to accept me.
Late one long and sunny afternoon, while playing with "my cat" and hugging her, from behind came an old man's admonishing voice, "Leave that cat alone! Don't you see she has a broken leg."
My heart sank as it dawned on me that the cat did not want me after all. She was just unable to run away. If she could have, she would have rejected me like the rest of them.
A Thought
The deeper significance of this story has eluded me until very recently. Still, all these years it served well as a "Little Daddy" story to amuse my children with. Maybe, in the future I will share it with my grandchildren as well.
Accordingly, He placed us in a bubble of space/time, a physical realm, which allows us the illusion that we can "run away". We do not need to be in a relationship with him unless we want to. Only under such conditions, there's an opportunity for the relationship to be real.
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Monday, March 2, 2020
Moshe
Sunday, February 9, 2020
Only You!
Monday, January 27, 2020
Infinity/Infinities
Sunday, January 26, 2020
Shavat and Aquarius
Tonight's the beginning of the Jewish month of Shevat which is associated with the zodiac sign of Aquarius, the water carrier. In Hebrew the name of Aquarius is "deli" and literally means, "bucket".
The great Chassidic master Rabbi Tzvi Elimelech of Dinov teaches, in his work "Bnei Yissaschar", that Aquarius is the zodiac sign of the Jewish people and it also bears a unique association with Abraham's servant Eliezer.
The great Torah commentary Rashi explains that Eliezer doled out drinks from the Torah of his master Abraham. Hebrew word for doling out is "doleh" and is grammatically related to the word "deli", Aquarius.
In reviewing this teaching, I notice that Rashi does not state that Eliezer doled out food from his master's teachings, but rather drinks. This got me thinking, what's the difference between doling out food and doling out drinks?
Then it dawned on me, food requires that the person chew, i.e. process. Drinks just smoothly go down, requiring much less effort.
When giving over from Abraham's Torah, Eliezer didn't hand it over to the students raw and unprocessed. Rather, he was concerned to present the teachings in a way which they can be related to. Therefore, he carefully ensured that the teachings were brought down to where they met the students at eye level.
Chabad mystical philosophy teaches that there are two kinds of bowing. One kind is what we're commonly familiar with, where someone of a lower rank bows before someone of a higher rank; like a servant before a master. While bowing, the servant temporarily sets aside all traces of personal identity in order to internalize the master's message.
No doubt Eliezer was adept at setting aside his identity before his master Abraham. For example, when he was entrusted with the sensitive mission of finding a bride for Isaac, he remains entirely nameless. The Bible does not mention his name and neither does he mention his own name. When identifying himself to Rebecca's family, he opens with the words, "I am Abraham's servant..." without any mention of his name.
However, Eliezer was also a master at the second kind of bowing. The second kind, might be even harder than the first. It's when someone of higher rank figuratively bows to someone of lower rank. This kind of bowing can require even more humility.
But what does such bowing look like? It's when someone of higher stature mentally steps into the situation of a person of lower stature to delicately convey a message in a manner which can be easily understood. Likely, the most commonly observed example of this scenario is that of a teacher who really reaches the students. In such a scenario difficult concepts are brought down to students in ways in which they can relate.
By stating that Eliezer doled out water Rashi is conveying that Eliezer was precisely this kind of teacher. He transformed the difficult concepts into water, meaning that he made them near effortless to internalize.
Being a master of both kinds of bowing turned him into an ideal bridge personality, as he brought together various levels of people in common continuum of communication.
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